Do You Have an Ex That...

At 30 something, chances are that you've had your share of relationships. I have. It's not a lot but it's still a number.

At this particularly quiet evening, when the rest of Manila are most likely preparing to go to their Friday night to let loose all the pent up emotions they accumulated from their 5-day slave-mode week, I am sitting alone in front of my computer thinking about what to write that's interesting to both you and me.

For some reason, I remember my exes. I wonder what they are doing now. No, it's not because I haven't moved on or that I still have some unfinished business with them. It's only because I am curious what has happened in their life after they screwed me over. Have they found the girl they wanted? Needed? Looking for? Have they settled down? Are they happy?



Right now, I wouldn't mind sitting down for coffee with them. I would want to catch up and see how they have been since we parted. Although it didn't work out, they were a part of my life. I learned a thing or two from them. At the very least, I learned a thing or two from having a relationship with them.

Do You Have an Ex You Think You Can be Friends with?


Do you have an ex that you want to see now just to catch up? It has to be an ex you would feel comfortable seeing, an ex you feel absolutely no romantic attraction anymore, an ex that could actually be your good friend. Do you have an ex that you think you can spend the weekend with with your other friends and actually have fun? Do you have an ex that you still trust?

Do You Have an Ex That You Feel Embarrassed To Have Been in a Relationship with?


Do you have an ex that you are embarrassed to be your ex? Have you fallen in love with someone who is just embarrassing to be with? It could be because he is stupid or boneless or lazy or whatever... just someone that made you realize, "damn, my standards were floored". Do you have an ex that you prefer other people not to know about? Do you have an ex that makes you cringe with the memory of you kissing them?

Do You Have an Ex You Would Want to Reconcile with?

Do you have an ex that you still love? Do you have someone in your past that you would want another try with? Do you still keep his letters and gifts and other things that remind you of him because you still feel it is special? Do you have someone you still think about before you sleep at night or when you wake up in the morning? Do you have someone you wish you can run into one day? Do you have someone you wish still wants you back?

Do You Have an Ex You Wish You Never Got into a Relationship with?


Do you have an ex that hurt you so bad or traumatized you that you really would rather to not have had him in your life given a choice? Do you have someone that just left such a bad memory, one that you just don't want to remember but couldn't forget?

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